Is This You Right Now?
Sitting at your kitchen table with your head in your hands. Not long ago your belly felt full of fire when you thought about your business, your clients and about the life that you were building. But you’ve lost that spark.
You ache to make an impact, you ache to build a business that gives you the feeling you get when you meet “the one”. The butterflies, the goosebumps, the chemistry. But, right now that feels like a world away.
Your mojo has taken a massive hike. Argh my heart aches for you, y’know why? Because I’ve been there and it hurts. I feel you.
Lemme guess a few things you might be feeling right now? You’re:
? Not booking the clients you want to work with.
? Not making the money or impact you want to make.
? You’ve got a vision but feel stuck when it comes to implementing it.
? You’ve lost your spark. This used to be your happy place but not right now.
? You feel disconnected and uninspired.
If this connects with you, you’re a bit like my client Frankie.
Frankie’s trying to build a creative business, taking all the courses, doing all the things but she’s feeling lonely, unsupported and like she wants to enjoy what she’s doing, but right now she wants to scream. Because Frankie chose this dream and this life, but now her partners putting pressure on her, asking things like, “so when you are going to make more money” and when she rings her mum for support she gets, “why don’t you go back into work and earn some proper money without all the stress darling.
Frankie screams silently into her pot of tea at her laptop. most days. She feels lonely and unsupported. She knows she’s great at what she does, but running a business feels hard and isolating at times. She spends a lot of time over-thinking whether this is really her thing or not and ends up doing the laundry because it feels easier than dealing with what’s in her head.
Does Frankie sound familiar? I want you to know this. None of this is your fault, beautiful.
YES, IT’s TRUE. NONE OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT!
This is a classic case of analysis paralysis.
For us women, there is so much to juggle PLUS there’s the sad truth that we are often not brought up to believe we can. We are conditioned. We want the freedom of our own business, but the mindset work is tough unless you have the right support. And we are fed lies by so many people in the marketing industry right now.
So you’re left thinking you need to do ALL THE THINGS, write all the posts, do all the events, spend all day on social media, go to all the networking events.
But this isn’t right. It’s a lie. Because what is true is that there are a few things you need to do, and I really believe it’s better to do three things really well than spread to yourself too thin love, because that’s what causes the overwhelm and burn out and negativity.
And the thing that fires up my belly is this: I want to see you on the other side of your dream. When you’ve done the work, had the support and made the transformation.
I want to see you claim your space, to make the transformation, to watch you go through the process and these are the things I want you to know.
Honey, there’s space for you RIGHT NOW!
Yes, love, there are lots of people out there doing amazing things but I promise you that none of them have the gift that you have. You are unique. With the right belief and intentional actions as well as a clear and supported path, you can still claim that space. It’s not too late. It’s still yours for the claiming.
You’re not working with the right team
You need to connect with your own dream team to travel with on your business journey. You need to work with someone who’s really got your back.
Let me ask you this question: Would you ever commit to spending your life with someone you don’t have a spark with?
Chemistry is everything, why wouldn’t you need this in your business too? You’ve got to find your vibe to attract your team.
As I write this, my hairs are standing on end, I feel the fire in my belly roar like a lioness for you. Do you know why? Because just talking about chemistry and connection lights me up in a way that nothing else does.
Because I can see your potential from over here. I know you are already enough and I want to give you a clear path forwards towards your dream.
Confidence comes from clarity, chemistry and community.
Doing the work inside yourself to bring clarity about what makes your heart leap. who you want to work with and learning exactly how to attract the clients you really want to work with. You’re going to need to learn a little firefly dance.
You are doing too much
You’ve been trying to do everything, be all over Instagram, create videos, write blog posts and more but what you haven’t focused on is creating the spark within yourself, of creating the content that doesn’t just sell your services but tells stories that magnetises dream clients and compels them to work with you.
As Seth Godin says, “Busy Is Not The Point”.
Doing ALL the things is not where success lies. If you dive deep into who you are and focus on what’s important, to do the work within yourself that helps tell people exactly who you are, then your future clients are going to find you. If you learn – no matter if you’re not a natural writer – to communicate your message, to be able to truly, deeply empathise with your dream clients, then they will flock to you.
What if there was a way to create chemistry, spark joy in what you do and magnetises towards your dreamiest clients?
Your dream is more within reach than you think.
Do you feel like you’re in a dark room with no windows, struggling to breathe? When you know that outside is a world of blue skies, gently swaying palm trees, music and laughter and light?
Is the path drawing you in?
So my BIG question to you is, do you open the door to see what lies beyond where you are now? Are you brave enough to try?